Wren had always been romantically and sexually drawn to women, but kept noticing unexpected attractions to men in certain contexts, particularly when women were present.
This pattern was confusing him and creating anxiety about what it might mean for his sexual identity. He reached out hoping to explore what it would feel like to experience both masculine and feminine energy together, seeking understanding about himself rather than answers from others.
I’d always been into women romantically, but kept noticing attraction to men in certain situations and it was doing my head in. I wanted to understand what it might feel like to experience both masculine and feminine energy together, to figure out more about myself.
Like many people exploring their sexuality, Wren wanted a safe environment where he could understand these feelings without pressure or judgment. He was looking for space to explore at his own pace while gaining insight into his attractions and what they might mean for him.
A naturally flowing experience
When we met, Wren found the environment he was hoping for. He found that out natural chemistry helped create a natural flow where exploration could happen organically without feeling forced or overwhelming.
We spent time having deep conversations about conditioning and sexual identity, which helped him feel seen and validated as a person navigating these questions.
The physical experience itself was beautiful and flowed naturally, allowing Wren to explore different energies and dynamics in a supportive setting. Our approach gave him permission to be curious about his attractions without needing to categorise or define them immediately.
From the moment we met they were great, such a safe space where I could explore at my own pace without any pressure. Their own connection made everything feel natural and flowing.
Throughout the booking, Wren was able to explore his curiosities while feeling completely accepted and understood. The combination of physical exploration and meaningful conversation created space for genuine self-discovery.
Discovering sexual flexibility and confidence
Through this experience, Wren gained valuable insight into his sexuality and discovered that he can be quite flexible, especially when female energy is present. This realisation helped him understand that his attractions didn’t need to fit into rigid categories or require specific labels to be valid.
He left feeling much more confident about who he is and more comfortable with the complexity of his sexual identity. The experience helped him understand that sexual exploration can exist without the pressure of permanent definition or categorisation.
The experience itself was beautiful and sexy, but what really stood out was how they helped me realise that my sexual experiences don’t always need a label. I left feeling way more confident about who I am and understanding that I can be quite flexible, especially when there’s a woman involved.
Most importantly, Wren discovered that his sexual experiences could be meaningful and valuable regardless of how they might be labelled or categorised by others. This freedom from rigid definitions allowed him to embrace his authentic attractions with greater confidence.
The importance of sexual self-discovery
Wren’s journey highlights how valuable it can be to explore sexual identity in safe and supportive environments. Many people experience attractions that don’t fit neatly into expected categories, and having space to understand these feelings without judgment can be genuinely transformative.
His experience demonstrates that sexual fluidity and curiosity are normal parts of human sexuality. When people feel safe to explore their authentic attractions, they often discover greater confidence and self-acceptance.
They’ve got a great ability to hold space for exploration and self-discovery. Really grateful for the experience.
Sexual identity doesn’t always require labels or permanent definitions. Sometimes the most valuable discovery is simply learning that you can trust your own attractions and experiences without needing external validation or categorisation.
While Wren’s story is unique, other clients have had similar things to say about their own experiences. You can visit our profile on Scarlet Blue to read the full review submitted by Wren along with many others.